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Fallen in love with a friend

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14
Question in full: Dear Doctor Ann, I have a friend and i have fallen in love with him. We've been friends since i was 3 and I don't know if he likes me. He's the typical handsome boy of my class and i see all the other girls flirt with him. He pays me attention too, we're always joking and we spend all the time 'arguing', but i like it because i know it's just a joke. I don't know what to do. One of my friends told him that i liked him. He told me that my friend had told him something about me, but he wouldn't tell what it was, he just said: tell me what you think it is. I'm afraid that he wont like me, and if he does, the other girls will try to take him away from me. What can I do? Please help.
I don't know how 14 year old girls get any work done at school because they spent so much time talking about boys, telling boys which girls fancy them, and telling girls which boys fancy them! Wouldn't it be easier if girls and boys could just talk to each other face to face? You've known this boy since you were 3 so you must be good mates and you already have a good relationship. But will you spoil that friendship if you hit on him? Why don't you say to him 'Would it be weird if we hung out together for a bit - just the two of us...' then you can see his reaction. It would be good to know if he likes you as a friend, or something more. If he really likes you he won't let other girls take him away from you. I know it's really difficult sorting out this girlfriend/boyfriend stuff but the best way is to talk to him direct and try to express your feelings. If he doesn't want to be your boyfriend he might just be your best friend for life which is no bad thing!